Aku..Wanita~

Aku wanita punya hati nurani
Yang tak dapat dibohongi
Pabila cinta tlah membutakan mata
Dan membuat tuli telinga..

Apakah salah jika aku menyinta
Apakah salah jika engkau ternyata
Pilihan hati
Belahan jiwaku ini..

Cintaku ini anugerah terindah
Dari yang maha kuasa
Cintaku padamu tak pernah berubah
Meskipun kita berbeza..

Apakah salah jika aku menyinta
Apakah salah jika engkau ternyata
Pilihan hati
Belahan jiwaku ini..

Aku wanita aku kaum hawa
Yang memang rapuh hatinya
Aku wanita aku punya cinta
Selayaknya manusia..

Ku wanita…
Yang hanya perlu kau fahami~...

I need you~....

I made a prayer to God

To send me a man that I could love

I was looking down every day, down into the mud

but I am looking up at the sky now

Your smile alone makes me happy

and it makes everything ok

My mind is blown away by the winds of your love

The light of your touch shatters the darkness in my heart

Your love is all I have left to believe in, all I choose to believe in

Your love brought life into my dead heart,

and for that I am forever yours..

I shall do my best again today

Let gain the strengh not to be defeated

For the sake of the person whom I love..

I would do anything ~..

To make Him happy, see Him smile

When He's gone, I feel empty

When I hear His laugh, I feel myself smile

I'll love him not matter what...

"My love...One n Only in my heart..The kiss you gave me is the one that sealed out fate, the kiss i gave you is the one that showed you my love..The kiss is that i wanted to share with you, the kiss is what i wanted to share till our death...You're forever in my heart and forever there you'll stay... (^_^) "

Warkah..

Takkan lagi aku menunggu
Kau hadir di dalam mimpi-mimpiku
Puasku mengharapkan dirimu
Seperti mereka yang punya cinta...

Diriku tanpa dirimu
kau tempuhi penuh bahagia
Diriku mahu kau tahu
Pedih ini kau tak terasa...

Warkahku mengharapkan dirimu
Seperti yang aku kenali dulu
Setiaku menantikan dirimu
Seperti setianya terhadap diriku...

Tapiku melepaskan mu~
Melangkah namun tak berdaya
Terusku terus menunggu
Cinta yang takkan pernah ada...

Aku Bukan Untukmu...

Dahulu kau mencintaiku
Dahulu kau menginginkanku
Meskipun tak pernah ada jawabku
Tak berniat kau tinggalkan aku
Sekarang kau pergi menjauh
Sekarang kau tinggalkan aku
Disaat ku mulai mengharapkanmu
Dan kumohon maafkan aku
Aku menyesal tlah membuatmu menangis
Dan biarkan memilih yang lain
Tapi jangan pernah kau dustai takdirmu
Pasti itu terbaik untukmu
Janganlah lagi kau mengingatku kembali
Aku bukanlah untukmu
Meski ku memohon dan meminta hatimu
Jangan pernah tinggalkan dirinya
Untuk diriku....

Sampai Syurga~...

Kumembenarkan jiwaku
Tuk mencintaimu
Kupersembahkan hidupku
Tuk bersama kamu
Dan diriku untuk kamu
Belum pernah kumerasai begitu..

Semua itu telah berlalu
Harapanku palsu
Dan mungkin hari yang satu
Terus ku tertunggu
Di hatiku masih kamu
Belum pernah ku ingin terus memburu..

Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Tuk dirimu...
Sampai syurga kumenunggu
Sampai syurga kucintamu
Hanya kamu..

Kumembiarkan hatiku

Tuk merinduimu

Kumenghamparkan sakitku

Tuk tatapan kamu

Bersamamu harapanku

Hilang dalam terang yang membutakanku...

Dan segala yang ku ada

Kuberikan semua

Untuk dirimu saja

Ku mahu dirimu

Bahagia tuk selamanya

Biar sampai syurga

Aku menunggu cinta darimu

Agar ku sempurna...

Namun aku tetap aku

Yang terbaik tuk diriku
Hanya satu..

Aku lemah tanpa kamu
Ku inginmu dampingi ku
Aku fahami aku bukan terbaik
Tuk dirimu...
Sampai syurga kumenunggu
Sampai syurga kucintamu
Hanya kamu...

Friends..

Once in a lifetime..you find a friend..
Who touches not only your heart but also your soul...

Once in a lifetime..you discover someone..
Who stand besides you, not over you..

Once in a lifetime..if you are lucky..
You find someone as I have you..

Very special people..we can be ourselves with..
talk with, laugh with, hope with and believe with..

True Friendship..

The Greatest Advice

Don't date because you are desperate.
Don't marry because you are miserable. (you'll end up MORE miserable)
Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.
Don't associate with people you can't trust. (it's better to trust only a FEW people)
Don't cheat.
Don't lie.
Don't pretend.
Don't dictate because you are smarter.
Don't demand because you are stronger.
Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough and know better.
Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don't sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don't stagnate.
Don't regress.
Don't live in the past. Time CAN'T bring anything or anyone back.
Don't put your life on hold for possibly Mr/Ms Right.
Don't throw your life away on absolutely Mr/Ms
Wrong because your biological clock is ticking.
Learn a new skill.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won.
Find a new friend.
Only a price to be paid for some of life's more hasty decisions.
To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions and be the best of what you can be.
SIMPLIFY your life. Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous liaisons.
Don't abandon your responsibilities but don't overdose on duty.
Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.
Be TRUE to yourself. (show your TRUE colors)
Don't commit when you are NOT ready.
Don't keep others waiting needlessly.
Go on that trip. Don't postpone it.
Say those words. Don't let the moment pass. (or the moment will PASS you by)
Do what you have to, even at society's scorn.
Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Run in the rain.
Dance with wild abandon.
Sing your heart out.
Cry at the movies.
Take care of yourself. Don't wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life.
You drive yourself to your destination.
NO ONE completes you - except YOU.
It is true that life does not get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don't be afraid. Don't lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.
Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in the God LORD.
Don't grow old. Just grow YOU...

Sayang dan Menyayangi~...

Bagaimana Menyayangi Seseorang...

1. Sayangi dia dengan hati, bukan dengan perasaan.

Jika anda meletakkan sesuatu perhubungan berdasarkan perasaan, ianya akan gagal kerana perasaan sentiasa berubah dari masa ke semasa.

2. Sayangi dia seadanya.

Di dunia terdapat hampir 6 billion manusia dengan 6 billion personaliti. Dia sememangnya seorang yang istimewa dan biarkan ianya kekal begitu. Jangan sesekali terfikir untuk mengubah apa-apa tentang dia kerana sekali anda mengubah, selamanya anda akan terus mengubah dirinya. Tentu anda masih ingat, anda terpikat padanya kerana dia adalah dia. Maka, tiada alasan untuk anda mengubah dia untuk menjadi seseorang yang lain.

3. Sayangi dia sepenuh hati.

Sesungguhnya dia telah banyak bekorban untuk anda. Dengan kelebihan yang ada padanya, dia berpeluang untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang yang lebih sempurna tapi demi cinta,dia telah memilih diri anda. Maka, jangan sesekali cuba untuk mempermain-mainkan keluhuran cintanya.

4. Hormati pendirian dan keputusan dia.

Jangan anda merayu dan jangan mencipta alasan supaya dia menerima cinta anda kerana kelak, yang anda akan dapat darinya hanyalah cinta simpati dan bukannya cinta setulus hati.

5. Yakinkan diri anda akan keistimewaan dia.

Dia adalah satu-satunya di dunia ini dan jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan dari dia kerana dia telah pun cukup sempurna semenjak anda mula terpikat padanya.

6. Percaya akan dirinya.

Sentiasa bersangka baik padanya jika kita juga mahukan sebegitu darinya. Pastikan anda akan sentiasa meletakkan diri anda di tempatnya sebelum melakukan apa-apa. Jika anda sendiri tidak dapat menerimanya, apatah lagi dia.

7. Jangan berjanji menyayangi dia untuk selama-lamanya

Kerana selama-lamanya bagi anda mungkin akan berakhir keesokkan harinya, tapi berjanjilah untuk menyayangi dirinya seolah-olah setiap hari itu adalah hari yang terakhir untuk anda berdua.

8. BERCINTA dengannya adalah seperti memberi hati anda kepadanya untuk dilukai tapi kepercayaan itu penting.

Percayalah kepadanya, nescaya dia akan melindunginya sepenuh jiwa dan raga.

9. Jangan sesekali meninggalkan dia tanpa sebarang alasan.

Dia bukan hanya akan setakat menangis kecewa dan kemudiannya meneruskan hidup seperti biasa, ketahuilah bahawa jiwanya akan mati secara perlahan.

10. Jangan cepat berbangga dengan diri anda.

Memenangi hatinya bukanlah satu kejayaan yang mutlak tetapi anugerah itu hanya layak anda perolehi setelah anda berjaya menyayanginya sehingga ke akhir hayat. Ketahuilah, dia memilih anda adalah kerana dia percaya bahawa anda adalah seorang yang jujur dan akan menepati janji. Anda telah bersusah payah dan berusaha sedaya upaya untuk memenangi cintanya, maka dengan itu haruslah juga anda berusaha untuk terus menyintai dirinya dengan apa jua keadaan sekalipun

Memerhati Org Tersayang Tidur..

Renungkan/lihatlah betapa sayangnya kita pada mereka.....
Pernahkah anda menatap orang-orang yang anda sayang saat mereka sedang tidur..

Kalau belum, cubalah sekali saja menatap mereka saat sedang tidur. Saat itu yang tampak adalah ekspresi paling wajar dan paling jujur dari seseorang.

Seorang artis yang ketika di panggung begitu cantik dan gemerlap pun akan tampak polos dan jauh berbeza jika ia sedang tidur. Orang paling kejam di dunia pun jika ia sudah tidur tak akan tampak wajah bengisnya.

Perhatikanlah ayah anda saat beliau sedang tidur. Sedarilah, betapa badan yang dulu kuat dan gagah itu kini semakin tua dan lemah, betapa rambut-rambut putih mulai menghiasi kepalanya, betapa kerut merut mulai terpahat di wajahnya. Orang inilah yang tiap hari bekerja keras untuk kesejahteraan kita, anak-anaknya. Orang inilah, rela melakukan apa saja asal perut kita kenyang dan pendidikan kita lancar.

Sekarang, beralihlah....Lihatlah ibu anda....Hmm...kulitnya mulai keriput dan tangan yang dulu halus membelai- belai tubuh bayi kita itu kini kasar kerana menempuhi kehidupan yang mencabar demi kita. Orang inilah yang tiap hari menguruskan keperluan kita. Orang inilah yang paling rajin mengingatkan dan membebeli kita semata- mata kerana rasa kasih dan sayang, dan sayangnya, itu sering kita salah ertikan.

Cubalah menatap wajah orang-orang yang kita cintai..sayangi itu... Ayah, Ibu, Suami, Isteri, Kakak, Adik, Anak, Sahabat, Semuanya...

Rasakanlah sensasi yang timbul sesudahnya...

Rasakanlah tenaga cinta yang mengalir perlahan-lahan saat anda menatap wajah mereka yang terlelap lena itu.

Rasakanlah getaran cinta yang mengalir deras ketika mengingat betapa banyaknya pengorbanan yang telah dilakukan orang-orang itu untuk kebahagiaan anda.

Pengorbanan yang kadang-kadang tertutupi oleh salah faham kecil yang entah kenapa selalu saja nampak besar. Secara ajaib Tuhan mengatur agar pengorbanan itu akan tampak lagi melalui wajah-wajah jujur mereka saat sedang tidur.

Pengorbanan yang kadang melelahkan serta memenatkan mereka namun enggan mereka ungkapkan. Dan ekspresi wajah ketika tidur pun membantu untuk mengungkap segalanya. Tanpa kata, tanpa suara dia berkata... "betapa lelahnya..penatnya aku hari ini". Dan penyebab lelah dan penat itu? Untuk siapa dia berpenat lelah Tak lain adalah KITA.....

Suami yang bekerja keras mencari nafkah, isteri yang bekerja keras mengurus dan mendidik anak, juga rumah. Kakak, adik, anak, dan sahabat yang telah menemani hari-hari suka dan duka bersama kita.

Resapilah kenangan-kenangan manis dan pahit yang pernah terjadi dengan menatap wajah-wajah mereka. Rasakanlah betapa kebahagiaan dan rasa terharu seketika menerpa jika mengingat itu semua. Bayangkanlah apa yang akan terjadi jika esok mereka "orang-orang terkasih itu" tak lagi membuka matanya, untuk selamanya ... "

"Uwaaaa....sedihnye kalu kite dapat bayangkannye, mmg menusuk jiwa aku..Mak..Bapak..Terima kasih banyak² atas semuanye..Terima kasih mendidik saya hingga menjadi seperti mana saya sekarang nih..Terima kasih kerana sabar dalam membesarkan saya yang nakal lg degil nih.."

'When You Divorce Me, Carry Me Out in Your Arms..'

EVERYONE SHOULD READ THIS LOVE STORY..

On my wedding day, I carried my wife in my arms.The bridal car stopped in front of our one-room flat. My buddies insisted that I carry her out of the car in my arms. So I carried her into our home.She was then plump and shy.I was a strong and happy bridegroom.

This was the scene ten years ago..

The following days were as simple as a cup of purewater: we had a kid; I went into business and triedto make more money.When the assets were steadily increasing, the affection between us seemed to ebb. She was a civil servant. Every morning we left home together and got home almost at the same time. Our kid was studying in a boarding school.Our marriage life seemed to be enviably happy.

But the calm life was more likely to be affected by unpredictable changes. Dew came into my life. It was a sunny day. I stood on a spacious balcony. Dew hugged me from behind. My heart once again was immersed in her stream of love. This was the apartment I bought for her.Dew said, you are the kind of man who best draws girls' eyeballs. Her words suddenly reminded me of my wife. When we were just married, my wife said, Men like you, once successful, will be very attractive to girls.Thinking of this, I became somewhat hesitant. I knew I had betrayed my wife. But I couldn't help doing so.I moved Dew's hands aside and said you go to select some furniture, O.K.?I've got something to do in the company. Obviously she was unhappy, because I had promised to do it together with her.

At the moment, the idea of divorce became clearer in my mind although it used to be something impossible to me. However, I found it rather difficult to tell my wife about it. No matter how mildly I mentioned it to her, she would be deeply hurt.Honestly, she was a good wife. Every evening she was busy preparing dinner.I was sitting in front of the TV. The dinner was ready soon. Then we watched TV together. Or, I was lounging before the computer, visualizing Dew's body. This was the means of my entertainment. One day I said to her in a slightly joking way, suppose we divorce, what will you do? She stared at me for a few seconds without a word. Apparently she believed that divorce was something too far away from her. I couldn't imagine how she would react once she got to know I was serious.

When my wife went to my office, Dew had just stepped out. Almost all the staff looked at my wifewith a sympathetic eye and tried to hide somethingwhile talking to her. She seemed to have got some hint. She gently smiled at my subordinates. But I read some hurt in her eyes. Once again, Dew said to me, He Ning, divorce her, O.K.? Then we live together. I nodded. I knew I could not hesitate any more. When my wife served the last dish, I held her hand. I've got something to tell you, I said. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the serious topic calmly. She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why? I'm serious. I avoided her question. This so-called answer made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer, because my heart had gone to Dew. With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own ourhouse, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. I felt a pain in my heart. The woman who had been living ten years with me would become a stranger one day. But I could not take back what I had said. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer.

Late that night, I came back home after entertaining my clients. I saw her writing something at the table. I fall asleep fast. When Iwoke up, I found she was still there. I turned over and was asleep again.She brought up her divorce conditions: she didn'twant anything from me, but I was supposed to give her one month s time before divorce, and in the month's time we must live as a normal life as possible. Her reason was simple: our son would finish his summer vacation a month later and she didn't want him to see our marriage was broken.She passed me the agreement she drafted, and then asked me, He Ning, do you still remember how I entered our bridal room on the wedding day?T his question suddenly brought back all those wonderful memories to me. I nodded and said, I remember. You carried me in your arms, she continued, so, I have a requirement, that is, you carry me out in your arms on the day when we divorce. From now to the end of this month, you must carry me out from the bedroom to the door every morning.I accepted with a smile. I knew she missed those sweet days and wished to end her marriage romantically. I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she does, she has to face the result of divorce, she said scornfully. Her wordsmore or less made me feel uncomfortable.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. We even treated each other as a stranger. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly, Let us start from today, don't tell our son. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for a bus, I drove to the office. On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. We were so close that I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this intimate woman carefully for a long time. I found she was not young any more. There were some fine wrinkles on her face.

On the third day, she whispered to me, the outside garden is being demolished. Be careful when you pass there. On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I seemed to feel that we were still an intimate couple and I was holding my sweetheart in my arms. The visualization of Dew became vague. On the fifth and sixth day, she kept reminding me something, such as, where she put the ironed shirts, I should be careful while cooking, etc. I nodded. The sense of intimacy was even stronger. I didn't tell Dew about this.I felt it was easier to carry her. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger. I said to her,It seems not difficult to carry you now. She was picking her dresses. I was waiting to carry her out.She tried quite a few but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I smiled. But I suddenly realized that it was because she was thinner that I could carry her more easily, not because I was stronger. I knew she had buried all the bitterness in her heart. Again, I felt a sense of pain. Subconsciously I reached out a hand to touch her head. Our son came in at the moment. Dad, it's time to carry mum out. He said. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had been an essential part of his life. She gestured our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face because I was afraid I would change my mind at the last minute. I held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom,through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly, as if we came back to our wedding day. But her much lighter weight made me sad.

On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. She said, actually I hope you will hold me in your arms until we are old. I held her tightly and said, both you and I didn't notice that our life lacked intimacy. I jumped out of the car swiftly without locking thedoor. I was afraid any delay would make me change my decision. I walked upstairs. Dew opened the door. I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I won't divorce. I'm serious. She looked at me, a stonished. The she touched my forehead. You got no fever. She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I can only say sorry to you, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of life, not because we didn't love each other any more. Now I understand that since I carried her into the home, she gave birth to our child, I am supposed to hold her until I am old. So I have to say sorry to you. Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears.

I walked downstairs and drove to the office.When I passed the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife which was her favorite. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, "I'll carry you out every morning until we are old."

The end.

"I love so much this story...there is something in it..And I hope my love relationship will not stale and fade away.."

A Woman Should Have.....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

One friend who

Always makes her Laugh...

And oneWho lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

A good piece of furniture

Not previously owned by

Anyone else in her family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

Eight matching plates,

Wine glasses with stems,

And a recipe for a meal that will

Make her guests feel honored.

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE...

A feeling of control over

Her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

How to fall in love

Without losing herself...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

How to quit a Job

Break up with a lover

and confront a friend without ruining the friendship

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

When to try harder...

and WHEN TO WALK AWAY..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

That she can't change

The length of her calves,

The width of her hips, or

The nature of her parents...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

That her childhood

May not have beenPerfect..

but;Its over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

What she would and

Wouldn't Do

for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

How to live alone...

even if

She doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

Whom she can trust,

Whom she can't,

And why she shouldn't

Take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

Where to go...

Be it to her best friend's kitchen table..

Or a charming inn in the woods...

When her soul needs soothing... !

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

What she can and can't accomplish

In a day...

A month..

And a year...

How FRieNDShip CaN Be BReaK..??

Both Friends Will Think The Other Is Busy

And Will Not Contact Thinking It May Be Disturbing
As Time Passes~

Both Will Think Let The OTher Contact

After That each Will Think Why I Should Contact First?

Here Your Love Will Be Converted To Hate Finally Without Contact

The Memory Becomes Weak

They Forget Each Other...

So Keep In Touch With AllYour Friends..and I Don`t Want To Be One Of This Kind.

So Here I am just toTo Say to all my Friends Out there..

"Dear Friend, I Am Fine Here. Please keep in touch with me..luv you all"

aDDicTED....

hehehe..x tau nk cite pasal pe dh..tp kelakar gaks..sbb salah sorang kwn aku bleh terikut men tulih bog..ok gaks tuh..at least aku bleh bace kengkawang aku nye story..nk kire, ari ni keje aku berlambak sbenarnye..tuk ilangkan tekanan..aku restkan jap otak aku kt sini..tapi xde cite yg menarik tuk aku cite² kt sini ari nih..Mmmm..yg aku tau..aku winduuuuu gile ngn die..rite now, everytime when I miss him, I will look at his gift to me..it make me smile back when my emotional are down..Ayanggg..I love you so much..can't express my feeling towards you in words..it's so special to me..you mean a lot to me..uhuuuuu...winduuuunyee..I'm addicted to him already..I want him to be beside me forever till the end of my life..

I LOVE YOU Sooo MUCH...!!~

Five Lessons~..

Five (5) lessons to make you think about the way we treat people.

1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.

During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:

"What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?" Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall,dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?

I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers,you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say "hello."

I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.

2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain

One night, at 11:30 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rain storm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance, and put her into a taxi cab.

She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him. Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached..

It read:"Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away... God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others."

Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.

3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember thosewho serve.

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less,a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.

"How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked.

"Fifty cents," replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it.

"Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient.

"Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins.

"I'll have the plain ice cream," he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill onthe table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies..

You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.

4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed theKing for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many of us never understand!

Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.

5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare & serious disease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness. The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, "Yes I'll do it if it will save her." As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded.

He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away".

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.

ReaSoN To LiKE n' LoVE a WoMeN~..

You can feel her Care in form of a Sister...

You can feel her Warmth in form of a Friend...

You can feel her Passion in form of a Beloved...

You can feel her Dedication in form of a Wife...

You can feel her Divinity in form of a Mother..

You can feel her Blessings in form of a Grandmother...

yet She is so Tough too..

Her Heart is so Tender..

so Naughty..

so Charming..

so Sharing..

so Melodious..

She is a Women..

She is Life..

so, Do Please Respect Her..

elly...13.06.08

Lelaki hensem VS Lelaki tak hensem

Kalau lelaki handsome pendiam
Perempuan akan cakap:: woow, cool giler...
kalau lelaki tak handsome pendiam
Perempuan akan cakap: eh perasan bagus...

kalau lelaki handsome berbuat jahat
Perempuan akan kata: nobody's perfect
kalau lelaki tak handsome berbuat jahat
Perempuan akan cakap: memang.... muka pun macam pecah rumah!

kalau lelaki handsome menolong perempuan yg diganggu
Perempuan akan cakap: wah.. machonya.. macam hero filem!
kalau lelaki tak handsome menolong perempuan yang diganggu
Perempuan akan kata: entah2 kawan dia...

kalau lelaki handsome dapat perempuan cantik
Perempuan akan kata: sepadan sangat...
kalau lelaki tak handsome dapat perempuan cantik
Perempuan akan kata: mesti kena bomoh perempuan tuh!

kalau lelaki handsome ditinggal kekasih
Perempuan akan kata: jangan sedih, kan saya ada..
kalau lelaki tak handsome ditinggal kekasih
Perempuan akan kata:...(terdiam, tapi telunjuknya meliuk-liuk dari atas ke bawah, patutlah, tengok saja luarannya)...

kalau lelaki handsome penyayang binatang
Perempuan akan cakap: how sweet that guy..rite???
kalau lelaki tak handsome penyayang binatang
Perempuan akan cakap: sesama keluarga memang harus menyayangi...

kalau lelaki handsome bawa BMW
Perempuan akan cakap: matching... hebat luar dalam
kalau lelaki tak handsome bawa BMW
Perempuan akan cakap: bang, bosnya mana?...

kalau lelaki handsome tak mau bergambar
Perempuan akan cakap: perasan hensem sgt
kalau lelaki tak handsome tak mau bergambar
Perempuan akan kata: tak sanggup melihat hasilnya ya?...

kalau lelaki handsome menuang air ke gelas perempuan
perempuan akan cakap:ini barulah lelaki gentlemen
kalau lelaki tak handsome menuang air ke gelas perempuan
Perempuan akan cakap: naluri pembantu, memang begitu....

kalau lelaki handsome bersedih hati
Perempuan akan cakap: let me be your shoulder to cry on
kalau lelaki tak handsome bersedih hati
Perempuan akan kata: kuat nangis!! lelaki ke bukan ni?

p/s:Betapa x adil kan dunia nih..huhuhu..

WaNita Lawa VS WaNita Tak Lawa

Kalau perempuan lawa pendiam
Lelaki akan cakap:: woow, ciri-ciri isteri idaman...
kalau perempuan tak lawa pendiam
Lelaki akan cakap: eh tak reti komunikasi betul...

kalau perempuan lawa berbuat jahat
Lelaki akan kata: musti ada krisis dalaman nih.kesian
kalau perempuan tak lawa berbuat jahat
Lelaki akan cakap: dah la tak lawa, perangai pulak huduh...

kalau perempuan lawa menolong
Lelaki yg digangguLelaki akan cakap: heroin sejati...!
kalau perempuan tak lawa menolong Lelaki yang diganggu
Lelaki akan kata: taktik nak ngorat le tu...

kalau perempuan lawa dapat Lelaki hensem
Lelaki akan kata: ok gak la....
kalau perempuan tak lawa dapat Lelaki hensem
Lelaki akan kata: kesian..mesti kena bomoh lelaki tuh!

kalau perempuan lawa ditinggal kekasih
Lelaki akan kata: buta kayu betul mamat tu....
kalau perempuan tak lawa ditinggal kekasih
Lelaki akan kata:...patut pun kena reject...

kalau perempuan lawa penyayang binatang
Lelaki akan cakap: perasaannya halus...penuh kasih sayang
kalau perempuan tak lawa penyayang binatang
Lelaki akan cakap: sesama keluarga memang harus menyayangi...

kalau perempuan lawa bawa BMW
Lelaki akan cakap: ntah dato' mana bela nih....
kalau perempuan tak lawa bawa BMW
Lelaki akan cakap: musti anak org kaya nih.....

kalau perempuan lawa tak mau bergambar
Lelaki akan cakap: pasti takut kalau² gambarnya tersebar
kalau perempuan tak lawa tak mau bergambar
Lelaki akan kata: sedar pun diri...

kalau perempuan lawa menuang air ke gelas lelaki
Lelaki akan cakap: caring sungguh....
kalau perempuan tak lawa menuang air ke gelas lelaki
Lelaki akan cakap: nak tunjuk caring le tu....

kalau perempuan lawa bersedih hati
Lelaki akan cakap: dont worry i will make u happy forever
kalau perempuan tak lawa bersedih hati
Lelaki akan kata: sikit² nak nangis!! mengada²...

kalau perempuan lawa masak
Lelaki akan kata: dah la lawa, pandai masak pulak tu...
kalau perempuan tak lawa masak
Lelaki akan cakap: ntah sedap ke tak????

kalau perempuan lawa main² miss call
Lelaki akan kata: takpe...
kalau perempuan tak lawa main² miss call
Lelaki akan cakap: ko ni takde keja lain ke... sibuk ni tau..

kalau perempuan lawa hantar² email
Lelaki akan kata: sukenya....
kalau perempuan tak lawa hantar² email
Lelaki akan cakap: balik² email dia..boringnye..

p/s: adil ker cm nih???Cam bagus laa kaum lelaki nih kan..kuakuakua..

aL~KisaH BaNGLa.....

Mmmm..ari nih berlaku sesuatu yg menguji akal n perasaan aku..as usual, pepagi aku kuar umah tuk gi keje..berjalan laa aku gi tmpt aku park kete aku dgn harapan ari ni aku bleh smpi opis awal or on time..dr jauh aku nmpk laa bangla tgh wat keje die..potong rumput..huhu..dlm ati aku berkata.."sure dh calar sket kete aku nih"..ati aku relax lg..dlm aku menghampiri kete aku..aku terdengar bunyik benda jatuh sebutir²...aku pn angkat laa kepala aku slow²..bukkkk...terkedu n terkelu aku seketika..Uwaaaaaaaaa~...cermin belakang kete aku dah retak seribu...just tggu masa nk gugur ke tanah jerrr...nak nangis aku time tuh..kete yg baru pakai 4 bulan bih jer dh jadi cmtuh..terus aku call abg spupu aku..2-3 kali tapi x angkat..then terus aku call..??aku lupe aku call sape dulu..mak aku ke boyfren aku dulu..then aku tipon abg spupu aku blik..dpt dihubungi..aku mintak die blik tgk kete aku..ckp laa yg kete akunye cermin belakang dh pecah disebabkan bangla tuh potong rumput wat batu terkene kete aku..sambil tggu tuh..aku call sunder, PM aku..ambik EL..mesti die pening ari nih coz aku x dtg keje..aku pn serba salah gak sbb patutnye aku ade submission dh kene antar ari nih..adei..terase lame gile laa ms tggu abg spupu aku..risau kot2 bangla tuh nnt dh abis keje lak..jenuh aku nk kejar..tapi mmg lame pn aku tggu..smpi sempat laa aku ngadu sket² kt boyfren aku..

Smpi je abg spupu aku terus die tgk kete aku..terus kitorg gi kt bangla tuh..seb baik die x gi jauh lg..abg spupu ngn gaya yg garang sound bangla tuh..tapi bangla tu stock jenis 'slenge' rupenye..seb baik kt situ ade supervisor die (bangla gak tapi jenis pandai sket..hehehe..)..tapi sempat gak laa aku tabuh bangla slenge tuh..geram btul aku..dh tau tmpt aku park kete tu xde rumput just ade batu2 kecik..die gi nk gaks potong rumput yg x berape nampak tuh..terkulat² muke die..budjet aku diam memula td aku x angin laa..tengkorak laa..ikut ati nk je aku sepak²..hentak sket kepala die bagi bijak sket..(kuakua..cm terer sgt aku nih..nk gi jumpe bangla tuh sorang² pn aku takut..nk tggu abg spupu aku dulu..tapi betul laa pe..kalu aku gi sengsorang..ade gak jumpe mayat aku dlm semak je nnt..kuar lak kt surat khabar esok tentang kematian aku...so, kene ambik langkah keselamatan dulu..betul x?? Hehehehe..)..hah..lupe nk lak cite awal² td..mak aku ade suh aku wat report polis kalu bangla tu x mo byr ganti rugi..so, bincang²..ckp²..supervisor tuh ckp die bleh byr separuh jer..then abg spupu aku ckp laa..mn bleh cmtuh..ikutkan kene byr full..skali bangla yg pandai sket tuh ckp laa, dh ade kes sebelum nih n mmg dowang byr separuh je..then abg spupu aku start call sana sini..tanya price tuk cermin belakang aku tuh..aku pn sibok tanye perodua nye gak..gilerr laa..kt perodua kene bayar RM600 complete set..abg spupu aku dpt harga RM290 complete set..tapi last² decide pilih tempat bangla tu slalu antar kete bile ade kes cmnih..kene RM320..pastu abg spupu aku mintk RM180 dari bangla tuh..pastu bangla yg pandai sket tuh balik kt bangla slenge tuh..Ntah ape yg downg bincang sesame downg..then bangla yg pandai sket tuh dtg bawak duit cash RM180 kasi kt abg spupu aku..then terus balik sambung keje dowang..tapi bile aku tgkk duit dowang kasi..terase kesian n simpati plak kt bangla tuh..disebabkan kesalahan seorang..kerugian tu ditanggung 3 org bangla tuh termasuk laa bangla yg pandai sket tuh..nampak gile dari duit yg downg bagi tuh..dowang kuarkn duit sket sorang..tapi abg spupu aku ckp kt aku "kalu ko simpati kt dowang..sape nk simpati kt ko plak nk repair kete ko tuh?"..terdiam aku time tuh..1-2 jam laa aku perhatikan kete aku diperbaiki..sedih n pilu ati aku tgkk..last² aku blik umah dulu coz lame gile nk kene tggu die nk pasang cermin tuh..3.30++ ptg baru siap kete aku..abis masa aku cmtuh je ari nih..adeii..pasnih nk kene tinted balik plak cermin tuh..melayang lg laa duit aku..baru je nk berjimat cermat..Mmmmm...lastly aku terima je ape yg jadi ari nih ade hikmah yg tersembunyi sambil aku bawak kete aku jalan ptg td..maybe nih salah satu dugaan Allah SWT kt aku n pengajaran wat aku yg terlupe baca bismillah ms turun kete dr blik keje smlm..

elly...12.06.08

KiSS n' GEStuRE..??

What Each Kiss Means~.....

Kiss on the Upperchest: I'm ready..

Kiss on the Forehead: We're cute together..

Kiss on the Cheek: We're friends.

Kiss on the Hand: I adore you.
Kiss on the Shoulder: Your perfect..

Kiss on the Lips: I like you a lot..

Kiss on the Neck or Ears: I want you now..

What Each Gesture Means~....

Holding Hands: We definitely like each other..
Touching on the Butt: Your fun..

Holding you tight pressed against each other: I want you..

Looking into each other's Eyes: I like you,I love you for who you are..

Playing with Hair: Let's fool around..
Arms around the Waist: I like you too much to let go.
Laughing while Kissing: I am completely comfortable with you.

p/s: Then I want to be kiss on my neck..hand..my lips..Also luv to holding hands..looking into each other's eyes..arms around the waist..laughing while kissing..(^_^)v

Elly...10.06.08

.: Wanita..Perempuan :.

Wanita yang akalnya senipis rambutnya..jangankan laki biasa, Nabi pn terasa sunyi tanpa wanita..tanpa mereka, fikiran dn perasaan seorg lelaki akan resah.masih mencari walau ada segalanya..namun Adam tetap merindukan Hawa..

Dijadikan wanita drpd tulang rusuk yg bengkok.mana mungkin kayu yg bengkok menghasilkan batang yg lurus..luruskn lah wanita dgn jalan yg ditunjukkn oleh Allah SWT kerana mereka diciptakn sebegitu rupa oleh Allah..didiklah mereka dgn panduan dariNya..jgnlah cuba menjinakkn mereka dgn harta kerana nantinya mereka akan semakin liar..jgnlah hiburkn mereka dgn kecantikan kerana mereka nntnya akan semakin derita..kenalkn mereka pada Allah zat yg kekal..disitu punca kekuatan dunia..

Akal senipis rambutnya..tebalkn ia dgn ilmu..

Hati serapuh kaca..kuatkn ia dgn iman..

Perasaan selembut sutera..hiasilah ia dgn akhlak..

Ssuburknla ia kerana dari situlah nnt mereka akan lihat nilaian dn keadaan keadilan Allah SWT..

Bisikkn lah ketelinga mereka bahawa ia bukan diskriminasi Tuhan sebaliknya disitulah kasih syg Tuhan..bila wanita semakin derhaka..pasti dunia lelaki akan huru hara..lelaki pula jgnlah mengharapkan ketaatan semata-mata tapi binalah kepimpinan..pastikan sebelum memimpin wanita ke jalan Allah..pimpinlah diri kepadaNya..Jinakkn diri kepada Nya..Nescaya akan jinaklah segala-galanya dibawah pimpinanmu..

Jgnlah mengharapkan isteri kamu semulia Fatimah Az Zahrah andai dirimu tidak sehebat Saidina Ali Kamarullah Al Wajhah..Kasih syg pd seseorang bukanlah dibuktikan pada HAWA NAFSU...tetapi cinta yg sejati.. dibuktikan dengan keikhlasan hati..

IF YOU TRUTHLY LOVE SOMEBODY,

jagalah dirinya, maruahnya dan namanya sebaik mungkin...

Minyak Oh Minyak...

Today..5th June 2008..11.03 am, Malaysia time..ari ni harga minyak kete dh confirm naik dr RM1.92 ke RM2.70..pepagi td on the way nk gi keje..tetibe jalan jam ngn terukk..pelikk gak..pastu 2 org opismate aku tetibe ambik EL..agak² sume tu penangan harga minyak naik kot..then aku baca laa news paper ari nih..sume cite pasal minyak naik..tapi aku rs tercekik bile tau rupe² nye minyak kete akan naik lg bulan 8 nih..gile laa..naik pening pala aku pikirkan budjet every month..Malaysia govt just akan support RM0.30 per litre je for every increment price in global market..pastu aku nye GM budjet laa, bulan 8 nih..minyak kt Malaysia akan cecah min 4 hengget..tolak laa discount govt yg kekut tuh sbyk RM0.30 je..so, bayangkan nnt kite sume kene byr min RM3.70 per liter..waaaaa...x ke byk tuh..kopak laa rakyat Malaysia kalu cmtuh..baik kite minum minyak je cmtuh..tapi yg pelik lg jeliknye..nape minyak kt petronas pn same mahal sedangkan tu minyak negara kite?? cm x adil jer kan..xde solution len ker agak² nye?? ape kate kite jual balik laa kapal selam yg TPM kite beli tuh..nk wat pe pn..bukan pakai sgt..membazir duit kerajaan je..dh laa kapal selam tuh buruk..baik laa gune duit tu bantu rakyat Malaysia lg bagus..tolong laa Pak Lah..simpati lah sket kt kami yg baru nk belajar hidup berdikari nih..simpati laa kt org² yg susah..pikir cmne kami nk sara hidup..at least wat laa cm Dr. Mahathir dulu..naik laa sket²..xde laa terase sgt..bile jadi cmnih rase cm rugi je x undi parti pembangkang ari tuh..rugi²..